Familiar 'love' isn't equal to safe love.
The chemistry that you are feeling may be created by karmic familiarity.
The multidimensionality of “staying” in a toxic relationship..
“Why don’t you just leave?” is a question that many people get asked when they are in an abusive relationship.
Why am I writing about this? Because many intuitives, empaths, sensitive people at one point or another in their life will end up in one of these relationships.. and stay, and they will be on the receiving end of this question and they may not even know how to answer this, and they may feel confusion, shame.. none of these are very helpful.
So I want to show you the multidimensionality of healing from traumatic soul contracts.
Here’s the truth:
Love bombing is insidious, it is layered and it’s not just psychology, it is energetic influence that is coming from traumatic soul contracts that you have experience with in other incarnations. Which creates the feeling of “familiarity”, you just don’t know why they feel so familiar so we naturally assume it’s a good thing.. not always.
Love bombing is not just flowers, sweet words, and attention. It’s neurological hijacking. It’s spiritual deception. And for many, it’s a karmic replay of these old soul contracts, deep wounds that need multidimensional healing, not shallow opinions. Things that these energies capitalize on when they are working through the person who is doing the love bombing..
The narcissist doesn’t just show up as a “bad guy” right away. They show up as everything you missed in childhood. You’re flooded with dopamine, oxytocin, a rush that feels like love but is really energetic hijacking.
Eventually the karmic balance needs to be restored though and this is why many of you have chosen to stay in these relationships for a longer period of time than seems logically necessary. You needed to be fully in this.. So do not blame yourself when you were the last one to see it, when everyone around you saw their true nature.. Your soul chose to be IN this.. to then come out of it.. At first it’s not obvious. Because the glitch between who you thought they were and who they really are… creates cognitive dissonance in the brain. + There is often a lot of energetic cloaking going on as well. Seeing this situation in its entirety truly requires you to look at what happens mentally in the brain, physically in the body, and energetically across all dimensions.
Your brain is doing backflips to reconcile two realities. Your body is addicted to the neurochemical rollercoaster. And your soul might be playing out an ancient script, a pattern that it’s familiar with, when interacting with this specific other person’s soul.
This is not “just a relationship.” This is a soul contract, and one that can be rewritten, and as a matter of fact needs to be.. that’s why you may be reading this.
The role of the Golden Dragons in healing this.
When clients come to me feeling spiritually entangled, shattered in their self-trust, and still energetically linked to someone who has harmed them, the Golden Dragons are the go to..
They come to burn away illusion & illuminate the truth, so that we can clearly see the energetic contracts that were formed in trauma. They come to repair soul fragments torn by manipulation and deceit.
If your soul is tired, your nervous system is frayed, and your body may have trauma responses that you don’t understand. It may be because your soul is requiring a more multidimensional understanding of these traumatic soul contracts.
I am not just blabbering some stuff that sounds good. I created a webinar all around Celestial understanding of traumatic soul contracts based on my own experience with this.
I went through the love bombing, the mask slipping, the dissociation, the dismissing of their behavior, the isolation, then the spiritual awakening.. and seeing the soul contract, the other lives where this very same pattern happened and how it was all written in the akashic records, and how my body was holding onto the trauma from this life AND from the other lives, how there were trauma responses in my brain still years after the events, simply because the energetic causes were not being addressed. So this is why I am offering you this in the multidimensional (mind, body, spirit) way that I am with
If this is you, it’s important to also stop minimizing your own experience. To stop thinking you should have “just left.” Understanding why.. will lead to releasing shame, guilt, confusion, and deep healing on all levels..
You were not weak. You were trauma-bonded.
The cycle of abuse creates a biological and spiritual addiction. You’re hooked on the highs because your nervous system is constantly preparing for the lows.
Dopamine–cortisol–dopamine–cortisol–cortisol–dopamine…
This is what is playing out on a physical & psychological level.
Until your body’s compass is spinning and you can’t even tell what safety feels like anymore.
If you’ve ever wondered, “Why can’t I just walk away?”
It’s because your soul has been manipulated too. And that’s not your fault. But it is your responsibility to heal.
If this is how you feel, and you recognize yourself in this, there are a few options that we have. You can (click links below for the info)
Get the Celestial Understanding Of Traumatic Soul Contracts webinar
Get the webinar + Live Zoom call combo so we can dive in with the dragons
Work with me for a longer period of time so we can truly devote time to slow and steady healing!
Work with Rayan and me together for 5 weeks in our trauma healing container.
Know that I also have a free trauma sensitive Discord group that you can join.