When compassion becomes enabling: Golden Dragon reminder..

Narcissists consider their former prey their permanent possessions, regardless of who initiated the discard.

Asking why a narcissist does what they do is as simple as this: they act in ways that serve their own chaotic needs, often fueled by a brain chemistry that is fundamentally "broken." Their capacity for empathy and normal communication is stunted, leading them to perceive relationships as transactions rather than connections.

In my webinar "celestial understanding of traumatic soul contracts" I go into how this brain chemistry malfunction is the physical manifestation of a tear in their psyche, which lets negatively polarized entities work through them which feed them stories that they then can no longer separate from the truth. Which turns them into just as much of a victim of their behavior as you.

Which does not mean that their behavior should be brushed off or minimized which can be tempting to do out of pity for them or compassion, but it does.not.stop.

It is a literal brain chemistry imbalance and a solidifying of an energetic attachment in the brain that works through them..

They go so outside of themselves that other entities can come right in to steer the ship. They are often obsessed with siphoning from you what they believe they have a "right" to. They will go to great lengths to continue to harass you, and your loved ones.

They scrutinize your online presence, monitor your friends, and infiltrate the lives of your loved ones, all in an attempt to retain their perceived dominion over your existence. In their fractured psyche, they conjure elaborate, fictional stories where you are still tethered to them in devotion or longing. These delusions, fueled by the chemical imbalance of cluster B personality disorders such as narcissism, borderline, histrionic personality disorder, exist solely in the chaos of their mind. Yet, they merge these illusions with reality, presenting these stories to others as undeniable truths, further cementing their dominion over their chosen narrative. Because it's all they have to siphon energy from..

This behavior is not random; it is a manifestation of limerence, a toxic blend of obsession and fantasy. They distort reality to avoid confronting the void within themselves. They will deny and minimize behaviors of blame-shifting, gaslighting, harassment, name-calling.. As if they never did any of those things.

They can not see how their behavior is unstable because their brain chemistry literally does not allow for them to process this type of information.

"The brain on the left is a normal brain, the one on the right is the brain of a person with Narcissistic Personality Disorder. They have a severely decreases ability to store emotional memories, and their prefrontal cortex is damaged which causes them to have problems with emotional regulation and impulsivity. They are also lacking gray matter in the anterior insula which is responsible for empathy. They have an impaired ability to remember what previous experiences felt like, which is a big reason they never seem to learn from their mistakes. So next time the Narcissist tells you that they can change, take a long hard look at this image. They are hard wired differently, and they are not going to magically produce the ability to feel empathy, nor will they be able to feel normal levels of guilt, shame regret or remorse. They do not possess an internal moral compass that keeps yours and my behavior honorable. And without the ability to feel bad for abusive behavior, the odds they will change are zero to none. You need to stop trying to save or help the narcissist, and focus on saving and healing yourself."

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They cannot perceive you as an autonomous being with sovereignty; instead, you become a projection screen for their insecurities and unresolved pain. Energetically, this is the work of parasitic frequencies, forces that feed on disconnection and chaos, drawing power from the narcissist’s willingness to host them like I already mentioned.

There is a distinct difference between being spiritually open, a sacred act of connection to higher planes, and becoming an unguarded vessel for disruptive, lower entities. Narcissists unknowingly act as conduits for these energies.

You can have compassion and refuse to put up with someone's nonsense..

Compassion does not mean tolerance of abuse, but it does mean recognizing their struggle without allowing it to compromise your own journey. Feeling pity for a narcissist’s suffering is a natural response, but you must temper it with the knowledge that their choices, and the entities they align with, should have as little or no access to you as possible.

The golden dragons are masters of boundary-setting and energetic purification, offering their guidance to those who seek liberation from toxic soul contracts that in a lot of cases have existed for many lifetimes. They transmute the residues of fear and manipulation into clarity and power, fortifying your spiritual armor. They can make it easier for you to reclaim your sovereignty and hold your sacred boundaries with grace, ensuring that your compassion remains a tool of empowerment, not a gateway for further harm. How do I know this? Because I've been working with them for years and sometimes I slip up and let compassion interfere with my boundaries and I was taught a valuable lesson in that again these past couple of days. They came in again to show me where I was confusing compassion with enabling and misplaced empathy,

Healing from a narcissistic entanglement is an act of spiritual alchemy.

Where are you on this journey? what has your experience been like?
Where are you finding yourself struggling still and what do you wish to release?

I'd love to meet you during a 1:1 video call where I can give you personalized advice, create channeled clearing statements for you with the golden dragons to help you break free from any energetic cords to them still. EVEN of you still have to be in contact with them (if they are a family member and due to various reasons you can not go full no-contact). There are always solutions. Sometimes a shift in perspective is needed and it takes another person to help you to see this shift. Reach out to me if you are ready for a shift in 2025!